I think after all these years I think that I should have a change. So yesterday I did.. I dyed my hair black, it was naturally brown – not really dark but not very light. These past few years have been quite tough, and I’m not complaining because I know that millions of people have it a 1000 times worse than me. But a 14yr old girl should not be in a situation like I know that millions of you are or that I am and have been. I know that this blog is anonymous but I’m going to give you the basics.
When I was 6 or 7 my dad and my mum got a divorce and my mum met my step-dad. Then when they got together we all moved. New lives, new friends, new home and a new person in our lives big time. So that was difficult. Then they got married. then they split up. Mum got with another guy, moved into another house, new school, new friends… Then they split up and my mum’s in a bad way. Then because I am living with my step-dad (for legal reasons my biological father doesn’t have parental rights, so when I want and only then can he get in contact with me) we help my mum out. She gets a new house, a few weeks later new boyfriend. Then a couple months later they split up and we’re about up to date now.. And I have a big sister with a different dad, a brother with the same dad and a little sister and her father is my step-dad…
So I think you can see why it’s difficult, not to mention the that my brother doesn’t know that our step-dad isn’t his biological father.
I know what you might be thinking…’That’s just the basics???!!!!’ but some of you might not be, I don’t know..
So I think I needed a bit of a change so I could kind of have a fresh start. And I know that to you guys dying my hair might not have been a very big change, but I think it was just what I needed. I’ll let you know, after all I did only do it yesterday.
If you guys think that this was a bit full on then let me know and suggest ideas of what to post..
Let me see what you guys think in the comments. If you have a complicated family and you want to talk, let me know. I’m here for you just like I know that you are for me. Thanks guys!
Dreamer Girl xx